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Cake day: July 9th, 2025

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  • The real gaslighting here is how he has convinced you that your defense is violence so that you judge yourself for it and forever believe you deserve the pain his love brings. That is how he binds you. Freedom is sweetest when experienced by someone like you, but you cannot and will not see that from under his shadow.






  • I think it’s simpler than all that. If I and the universe are one and the same, I harm myself in the exact moment I harm someone else. The damage may be psychological, and the yucky feeling left behind may trigger confirmation bias the next time something “bad” happens to me.

    My simple explanation and your convoluted explanation are the real quantum entanglement you wish to see in the world. You’re working your brain so hard to access the same truth, just as Amazon overworks a warehouse worker to the point they forget if they should pack 2 or 8 cans of beans. They find Nirvana for a moment when they release themselves from the dilemma and go with the amount they intuit will lessen your suffering.