🤱 I’m writing this post for all the working moms out there. I recently returned to work part-time after maternity leave, and wow—working now feels completely different than before.
As a software engineer, I used to live the classic programmer life: surviving on coffee and pizza, pulling all-nighters like it was normal, and staying glued to my laptop for hours. That was just how I operated.
But things changed. Having a baby flipped everything. For starters, I had to give up caffeine and junk food because I’m breastfeeding. And guess what? I actually sleep now—and I love it. More importantly, this journey has given me a whole new level of respect for moms in the workforce.
If you're planning maternity leave or worried about coming back, here are a few things that have worked for me so far:
1. Be transparent with your team
I was open about what my daily life looks like with a baby, and the team has been nothing but supportive (thank you, Manara , Amr El Selouky , Hesham Walid El-Ashram , and Deenah Abdelaziz). All calls are planned when I have help—either my husband or our nanny. I also work flexibly whenever it fits around the baby’s rhythm.
2. Learn your baby’s schedule
Speaking of baby's rhythm, every baby is different, but around 4 months, mine started showing some patterns like eating at certain times and naps around the same hours. I write down a general sense of the routine, which helps me slot in meetings and focus time.
3. Don’t feel guilty about loving your work
I really struggled with this at first. I felt like I was abandoning my baby just by sitting at my computer. But the truth is, a happy mom makes a happier baby. Being back at work makes me feel like me again, and that joy carries over into the time I spend with my baby.
4. Share the load
I’m really lucky to have such a supportive husband, Piotr Konopka — going back to work wouldn’t have been possible without him. We're tag-team parenting based on our work schedules. Some nights I handle bedtime, other nights he takes over. At first, I worried our baby would be sad without me... but nope. He’s out here living his best life with his dad. 😅
5. Let go of perfection
Some days are just off. Baby’s cranky, I’m tired, nothing goes to plan. That’s okay. Tomorrow might be better. And even if it’s not, that’s okay too.
To all the moms juggling both work and parenthood—you’re doing amazing. If you ever want to swap tips or just vent, my DMs are open. ❤️
And if you’re in Saudi 🇸🇦 and looking to bring real, hands-on AI training to your team (the actual AI, not just the buzzwords), I’d love to connect. Let’s chat! 👩💻