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    6 小时前

    I understand what you are saying. There is often a sport role that everyone assumes dads and sons do too.

    But part of that is even though we have moved past fixed gender roles our society still has age old things that are going to take time to blend out. For example my dad is a repair/fixit /hunting/fishing /sports guy from that gendered era. As a kid I really disliked team sports, so wed go fishing… Just quality time and quiet reflection.

    My mom was art and books, and baking. We had lots of intellectual discussions growing up…about morality, ethics etc. Quality time with my mom was her showing me how to sew, or sharing art.

    The male role model, is showing positive influence…rather than negative toxic violence or fist fighting, etc. So that can still be hanging out fishing with a man…it doesn’t have to be hangingout with dad and knitting.



  • Its topped with violife shredded cheese. For the parmiagiana I mix the bread crumbs with a dried grated dairy free parm. I will get the name brand next time I buy it. I tossed the container in the recycling in the morning so I don’t have the label handy. Its a kraft like plastic shaker container with a light blue label












  • Also, uni doesn’t have to be about career, it’s personal growth. There is a good book, which I forget the title right now, about how countries that stop teaching the arts start to have less critical thinkers in society and just become factory minded workers with no questioning of the capitalistic nature their country is pushing onto them to only increase profit. So really we should all have free schooling to grow as a society, even if your passion is making the perfect latte





  • Trades is the best bet. I left Uni, and went into a trade. At 23 I had a house, wife, car, and baby on the way—Trades can be surprising lucrative, and can lead into other avenues via the variety of skills learned.

    For example, now I train engineers how to use their software or how to solve the technical problem they face via the sequrnce of tools in the engineering program.

    In some cases I’m earning more than the engineers. Their paper might open other oversea jobs though.