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  • the reason i’m super negative is that the blog post makes no sense. he’s overpaid massively for a domain because it used to have an old forum on it, and he is now announcing his intention to build a thing using that name which is nothing like it, to recapture a feeling of nostalgia for another app which is nothing like the first two. and he is marketing it as a way to meet new people despite he fact that you have to meet people before you can see them in the app.

    this has amico written all over it.

    like, how do you even reach critical mass if the barrier to entry is intentionally set 20 meters off the ground? why market yourself with an old forgotten name despite not resembling the old thing at all? why announce it before you have something to show?






  • lime!@feddit.nutoADHD@lemmy.worldConfession time...
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    5 hours ago

    i’m not diagnosed, but i got prescribed dopamine and serotonin blockers to help with presumably stress-related muscle pain and depressive symptoms. “coincidentally” (thanks to a doctor who actually listens) those meds also dampen adhd symptoms.

    in the past few months, it feels like i’ve become… more me. i use less time stuck in bad thoughts and decision spirals. i can actually look into the future instead of just focusing on what’s in my immediate vicinity. i can sit still long enough to actually do my hobbies, rather than getting up and randomly wandering every few minutes. i can put things in my head aside for later now.

    i know this is trite, but if you worry about bullying, don’t. that’s also a symptom, a mental spectre that disappears once you get the right stuff in you. if you’ve spent decades with this, you’re old enough to know (logically if not emotionally) that bullying is pretty rare outside of the school environment. if you’re not being bullied now, becoming more comfortable with yourself is hardly something that would make it happen. and if it does happen, being more comfortable with yourself means you won’t care.

    in short, meds don’t change you. they give you more time as you.