So you’re telling me, as God’s Honest Truth, that the Day’s most important meal rose with the Sun, took wok in hand, and fried this rice?
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Finally, realistic tentacles for gaming!
I guess I hadn’t thought about it, but a lot of memes are more trans aesthetic than trans experience. Good point.
There’s trans humor that doesn’t reference the trans experience?
Easier to say than sthing
Octopodes nuts
pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mltoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Barely disguised fetishEnglish
16·7 days agoYou can tell that Clifford is fiction because the police haven’t shot him.
I’m told its Lesbian Visibility Week.
I see you!!❤️
Disagreeing with a misogynist isn’t misandry.
Pretty advanced misogyny to personify octopuses and then blame the “women” octopuses for rejecting sexual advances.
pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mlto
Leopards Ate My Face@lemmy.world•Caitlyn Jenner asks Trump for help after impact of trans passport policyEnglish
14·11 days agoYou don’t speak for us
If it makes you feel any better, it’s not fuck EVERYONE, just anybody that would infringe on your right to your own body.
I get it, though. My orchiectomy was very symbolic for me, taking control of my own existence. Before that, I constantly felt like any major life decision I would have to run by everyone in my life to make sure I was being sensible by their standards. But my friends don’t really want to make my decisions for me, and they don’t feel the dysphoria that I feel. It’s been really freeing to TELL my friends what I’m doing instead of asking for some awkward social permission.
I’ve only gotten an orchi and don’t plan to get a vaginoplasty, but I’m also not really in the dating scene. No one treats me any differently except for myself. I’m a lot more comfortable in my body and thus more comfortable expressing myself and my gender. There are definitely people who desire me carnally, and anyone who cares whether or not I have balls is really too cooked to be with me anyway.
I’m gonna say it’s crop milk
What’s the fourth milk?
pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mlto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Can I get some tips and recommendations for skin care?English
3·13 days agoI’ve been gravitating towards two brands for skin care: The Ordinary and Prequel. They’re both relatively inexpensive and fairly straightforward. I wash my face with a gentle cleanser (right now it’s Prequel Gleanser) and apply moisturizer (The Ordinary Natural Moisturizing Factors + Phytoceramides) and sunscreen (Prequel’s physical sunscreen, I forget the name). Swap those out as you see fit, but that’s a basic routine. If your skin is dry, maybe apply twice a day.
If you want to grow from there, find a toner you like and apply it before the moisturizer. Finding a good one takes time, because it takes a while to make a difference. That gows on at night, ideally.
As for body, the basics are very similar, but people usually find different products for their body. Because face skin is more sensitive, face prodicts are usually more expensive.
There is a lot of variety in products, so you might try a few products before you find what you like, but it’s so nice when you find it.
pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mlto
Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•my Lemmy modus operandi & why I end up deleting an account and making a new one
9·13 days agoIt’s missing a stwp after vow of silence where I ghost my friends for a month.
pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mlto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•What would you call these styles of dresses?English
4·14 days agoBesides “skater dress”, there might not be a good unified term. The skirts are A-line. A band that hits right below the bust can be called an empire waist.
Generally, I find that trying ro search a particular term for a style often falls short. Filtering by desired features (mini/midi/maxi or pencil/a-line/pleated, for example) can help. Dresses come in so many shapes.
pooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mlto
WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zone•The legend Christina KochEnglish
5·17 days agoShe looks completely different with her hair down and, ya know, like there even being a down. I really enjoyed watching her hair float around her head.








And invalidating a woman’s feminism because she wears a hijab is a tool of the patriarchy. That is the point.