Meanings of political identities shift dramatically based on context, and you can't manually confirm the beliefs of everyone present at your 'gathering of people with x political identity'. To the extent that your political identity is based on Real Beliefs with Real Consequences, you should expect not to have much in common with many other people who declare the same identity when you move to a new place (or corner of the internet).
Example: In rural Southeast Texas, Confederate flags are a common sight, and my geometry teacher once told us about a cross burning he witnessed (which a few students murmured we really ought to bring back).
The majority of people genuinely hold at least one belief that, to many of my coastal-elite-descended friends, would seem comical. E.g., women should never have jobs and should rarely speak (especially in public), men with long hair are wanton or gay or trans or both, beating children (not like 'spanking' but like 'anything short of broken bones') is not only fine but your duty as a father, weed overdose not only can but will definitely kill you, megadoses of zinc can cure cancer, the covid vaccine is the mark of the beast from the book of revelation, high school football ought to be the most important thing in your life and, if it isn't, you are not just odd but untrustworthy, and abortion doctors force-feed fetuses to geese to make fois gras for gay New Yorkers (of which the force feeding is the only ethical component).
Okay, I made up the last one, but the rest are actual positions I've heard espoused hundreds or thousands of times by people I met between the ages of 14 and 18.
Also many people talk like this, and everyone's a 'libertarian'.
My mom's from a conservative California family with environmentalist sympathies, and we had something like 60 percent overlap in our views prior to the Texas move. However, I soon found that everyone around who wasn't liable to drop one of these devastating truth bombs on me thought of t